I’ve cleared up some misconceptions about hot female bartenders. Now I’m going to show you how to get a date with a hottie behind the bar.
THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT DO
1)Don’t get really drunk.
I’ve seen this a million times. They guy makes a great first impression and then he gets blasted out of his mind. By the end of the night, the hot bartender is so turned off by his drunken stupor; he then becomes just another annoying customer.
2) Don’t over tip.
I’ve seen guys tip a hot girl 20 bucks or every single drink. In their mind, they think tipping the hot bartender excessively will increase their chances. In reality it has the opposite effect. Hot bartenders look at the excessive tipper as a guy who is trying to show off. Hot bartenders get pissed off at the notion and will actually flirt with this customer even more. She realizes, the more she flirts, the more money she makes. In a nutshell, she is hustling the over tipper. Obviously, you don’t want to look cheap or stiff the girl your trying to go out with. The key is to tip WELL, but not excessive. There’s a big difference
3)Don’t haggle her
If you start out on a good note with the hot bartender and you know her name don’t yell it out when you need something. If the hot bartender likes you, that will change real quick if you’re constantly yelling her name out when you need something.
Even though you think we are busy behind the bar and not paying attention, we are aware of everything going on. If you stare at the hot bartender all night when she’s working, she knows it. It will creep her out and ruin your chances.
5)Don’t try to talk to her during busy times
The best time to talk to the hot bartender is early in her shift. This is the BEST time to get to know her and lay the groundwork. At the beginning of the shift she is happy (usually), has energy, and has time to talk to customers. If you constantly try to get into deep conversations when she is very busy, you will annoy her. At the end of the night, the hot bartender is tired and has a checklist of things to do so she can go home. She’s also been hit on all night and you at 3 am might be the last straw before she loses it.
6)Be Careful What You Say!!!
If things are going really well between you and the hot bartender keep your mouth shut!! I’ve seen it a million times. A guy is doing really well with a hot bartender and then he tells his buddy he is definitely going to bang her. The problem is, her co-worker is helping someone 3 stools down. She hears the guy say this and then goes and tells the hot bartender. Before he even got her number, its over.
…….To Be Continued!